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Looking Good in Glasses – We’re Cute, not Nerdy

(Last Updated On: September 6, 2019)

Looking good in glasses was not part of my vocabulary when I started wearing them at the age of 6 in the 1st grade. I remember them still…black, cat-eye frames on my little girl face. It set me apart from the crowd, but not in a way that made me feel good. I don’t know if the term had even been coined yet, but I felt like a nerd. That was in the early 1960’s. Flash forward to today.

Fortunately we live in a different world now, when it comes to wearing glasses, no matter our age. Glasses are cool. Glasses are trendy. Glasses are cute.

There are so many stylish glasses for women of all ages. For girls like me who are over 50 and over 60 (yes, we are still girls even if our age makes us sound old), we still have a lot of options when it comes to selecting a style of glasses that are fun and trendy.

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How to Pick the Right Glasses:

How to select glasses based on your face shape

 

It really is a subjective decision. I’ve gone through many phases in my 60 years of wearing glasses. I wore contacts also for many years, but always had the glasses handy. I’ve worn glasses almost exclusively for the last 10 year sor so. And, I think I look good in glasses. 🙂

Looking good in glasses has a lot to do with making an intelligent selection of frames based on the shape of your face. 

How do you know what size and shape of eyeglasses will look best on your lovely face?

 

 

There are some factors that will help pick the right glasses for you. Here are four helpful considerations from our friends at VSP:

 

Shape of Your Face

Round face: Eyeglass frames that are square or rectangular tend to be wider than a round face. This quality can enhance your face by making it appear slimmer and longer, adding balance to your round features.
Frames to Avoid: Rimless frames, round frames and small frames will accentuate the roundness, making your round face look even rounder.

 

Oval face: Frames that suit an oval face have a strong bridge, are wider than the broadest part of the face and are geometric in shape.
Frames to Avoid: Eyeglasses that are overlarge and cover up more than half of your face will throw off the natural balance and symmetry of the oval face.

 

Square Face: Eyeglasses that soften the angularity and sit high on the bridge of the nose look best on square faces. Oval or round eyeglasses will balance and add a thinner appearance to the angles of a square face.
Frames to Avoid: Angular and boxy eyeglass frames will sharpen and draw attention to your angular features, making a square face appear bulky.

 

Diamond shape face: Play up a narrow forehead and chin with eyeglass frames that sweep up or are wider than the cheekbones, such as cat eye glasses and oval frames. These frames will accentuate your cheekbones and delicate features.
Frames to Avoid: Boxy and narrow frames will accentuate the width of your cheeks, drawing attention to your narrow features rather than enhancing them.

 

Heart shaped face: Frames that balance the width of the forehead with the narrowness of the chin are ideal. Eyeglasses with low-set temples and bottom heavy frame lines will add width to that narrower part of your face. Round or square glasses with curved edges will help draw attention away from a broad, high forehead.
Frames to Avoid: Steer clear of any style or color of frames that draws attention to the forehead. This includes frames with decorative temples or embellished tops.

 

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Skin Tone

  • Warm Skin Tone
    If you have a yellow, bronze or golden cast to your skin, you have a warm complexion. Stay away from contrasting colors such as pastels. White and black frames are not flattering either. Instead, the best frame colors for you are light tortoise, browns shades, gold or honey, beige, and olive green.
  • Cool Skin Tone
    If your skin has pink or blue undertones, you have a cool complexion. Avoid colors that wash you out and instead reach for frames that are silver, black, dark tortoise, pink, purple, blue, mauve and gray.

 

Lifestyle

Take into consideration how you live and the kinds of activities you enjoy. If you lead an active lifestyle and participate in sport, you might want to consider flex frames that will twist and bend without breaking.

 

Personality

Your glasses play a part in defining your look, so select them with care. Some people choose to have more than one pair of glasses…for work and for play, or for evening out on the town. I have several pairs of glasses that can work for me as long as I’m not sitting at the computer. But my current pair of glasses is my favorite by far, so I wear them almost exclusively.

I like frames that have an interesting look to the arm (the piece that fits over your ear), maybe a pattern or a different color.

 

 

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Looking Good in Glasses in Midlife

Midlife brings its own set of challenges, and looking our best as we age is a priority for many women. When it comes to our skin, our hair, our faces, and our glasses, we want to feel good,  look classy, trendy, stylish and of course, cute.

Here are a few examples of glasses that help to create an overall look and style:

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Where is the best place to buy glasses and sunglasses?

Candi Randolph Midlife Blogger

For years I felt that I had to buy my glasses in person in a retail setting. And it’s not a bad way to go. You can try them on, stare at yourself in the mirror, become more and more confused as you continue to try on more styles, and generally have no clue which frames to select. It’s great fun!

I have purchased glasses at discount outlets and also at higher end stores. And you know what? They’re really all the same.

A couple of years ago I decided to try an online source to purchase my glasses. I had spent a LOT of money on a pair of glasses and a pair of sunglasses, and wasn’t happy with either. I couldn’t see clearly out of the glasses, and the sunglasses scratched so easily I couldn’t see well out of them after awhile.

I did some online research and ultimately ordered a pair of glasses from Coastal.com. I used my current eye prescription, obtained from my eye doctor, to place my order.

Since that first order, I have ordered a second pair of glasses, the pair that I’m wearing in most of the photos on this blog, as well as sunglasses. And, I have been very satisfied with all of them. More than satisfied, actually. Looking good in glasses is important to me; it’s part of my overall style. I love my glasses and adore my sunglasses. I wear sunglasses in every type of weather so it’s important that they are comfortable and that I can see well for driving.

 

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Coastal.com has been in existence since 2000, first offering contact lenses (and they still offer them today), then branching out into designer glasses and sunglasses a few years later. They offer a variety of exclusive designer brands in eye wear, so if you want a look that is truly unique, Coastal is the source for you!

You’ll always find sales and discounts, as well as special offers (like the one at the bottom of this post) with Coastal.com. They are also passionate about customer service, and followed up with me several times to make sure I was satisfied with my purchase. I like that.

What about returns, you ask? Because they want you to absolutely love your eyewear, Coastal.com offers a free 14 day no-questions-asked return policy, and a 365 day warranty, on all orders starting from your delivery date. Very fair policy.

 

Coastal.com is also giving back in the form of their Buy One, Give One program. They have partnered with the Essilor Vision Foundation to provide vision services to the 2.5 billion people around the world who do not have access to them.  For every pair of glasses bought, they will donate a pair of glasses to someone in need. I like that, too.

 

How to Order Prescription Glasses Online

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First, let me say that I am not a professional so this section is just lil’ ole’ me talkin’ about my experience ordering eyeglasses online. Enough said.

This is what I learned from ordering my glasses online:

You need your complete, current prescription. You’ll input the readings to create your own personal profile on Coastal.com. You can even tailor the frames shown to your particular prescription – it’s called My Fit and it is extremely helpful! I only look at eyeglass frames that will work for me, as I wear progressive lenses and have a strong prescription. The narrower frames are not large enough to give me the ability to see both near and far.

I used my existing glasses to help me determine what size frames to purchase. Every pair of eyeglass frames has 3 sets of numbers on one of the arms. I used those readings to compare them to the frames I was looking at online. Each reading represents a size…length of frame arm, width of nose bridge and lens width.

The website itself is very easy to navigate, and once you input your own prescription it will guide you to the best selections for you. If you want to chat with a representative that is almost always an option, too.

You need to take your time, consider all of the options and carefully make your decision. I saved about a dozen different frame styles, pondered them over a period of days, and when I finally made my decision it was not at all what I thought I would select!

I ultimately decided to purchase a frame that was larger than my last pair and more colorful, too. I felt that it would help to balance my hairstyle, hair color (auburn) and my oval shaped face.

When they first arrived I thought, “yep, these are definitely large frames!”, but I quickly got used to them and now get compliments on them quite often.

If looking good in glasses, discounted pricing and superior customer service is what you’re looking for, I would encourage you to consider Coastal.com. Use the link below for even more savings. 🙂

 

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32 COMMENTS

  • Hi Candi, I just went for my annual eye check up and wanted to get some really ‘out there’ glasses. I think they are fashion statements these days. Unfortunately, I have a small face plus a bump in my nose so not many styles suit me. I’ve never tried contacts as I don’t think I could put them in. You are so right thought that Glasses are no longer for nerds but for fashionistas!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Yes, they are more of a fashion statement these days and I like that!

  • Jamie

    You do look cute in Glasses! Loved this guide~

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      thanks Jamie!

  • Jocelyn

    I have been on the hunt for new glasses! Thanks for the tips.

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Thanks, hope you consider using Coastal, they’re really great to work with.

  • Ashley

    These are GREAT suggestions! I had to get glasses in middles school, and felt self conscious about them. So I fixed that with contacts for years. But then in my late twenties, my eyes have been rejecting contacts, and I had to switch back to glasses. I’ve never thought about skin tone in relation to picking out glasses, but you’re so right! My new glasses are growing on me

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      My eyes did the same thing to me and that’s why I switched back to glasses. Mine have definitely become a part of my style, and I’m sure yours will, too!

  • Jennifer Morrison

    These are great tips for selecting glasses! I only started wearing them a few years ago, but it is always a stress to find the right pair. I will study up!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Thanks, I hope you find these tips helpful!

  • Jacqueline

    Great post! I agree that personality has a huge part in choosing your glasses, and in how you feel while wearing them! I got glasses when I was a second grader, and had lasik eye surgery when I was 30… just when glasses were becoming cool haha!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      I would still take the 20/20 vision if I could!

  • Verla

    I think it makes perfect sense to buy glasses on line with current Rx. Why not? And your schematic is helpful.

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      It’s a leap of faith to go online with purchasing glasses, but I found coastal.com to be very customer oriented so felt good about my purchase.

  • Kristi Ann

    I think glasses look great on you! I’ve always been fortunate enough to not need them, but I don’t think there is anything wrong with them and look quite trendy on a lot of people!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Thank you!

  • Nicole

    Great tips! I don’t wear glasses so I never really thought that much about it, but I wear sunglasses every day!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Hopefully you’ll never need to (except for those doggone reading glasses!) but if you do, keep these tips handy 🙂

  • Jennifer

    The guide was great. Having worn glasses since I was eight I understand the hate/love relationship with them. I currently have two different styles of frames one in turquoise and one in purple, but golden sunglasses. One style you will NEVER see me wear again are the oversize glasses of the 70’s/80’s. I don’t like seeing them making a come back because I really don’t think anyone looks good in them. But my sister used to hate cat’s eye frames because she was forced to wear that style for years and I my turquoise pair is similar to the cat’s eye style. So I guess to each, your own.

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Ultimately you are so right, to each their own. I hadn’t thought about those huge 80’s glasses in years…but I had a pair! Thought I looked pretty cool in them,too 🙂

  • Katie

    I have been wearing glasses since grade school, I really am not liking the larger rounded frames that are so trendy now. I wish that trends didn’t completely overtake. It’s pretty frustrating. Nerdy is cool too! Nothing wrong with being a nerd!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Absolutely not, it’s all good!

  • gail

    I just got my first pair of glasses… still second guessing my pick! 🙁

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      It’s a tough decision for sure. Hopefully they will grow on you and you’ll get used to seeing yourself in them.

  • Heidi

    Great suggestions! I have a square face and I find rounded cat eye frames work best!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      That’s great!

  • Rae

    This is great, I have looked at online glasses places but am so scared to try them out. I’ve worn glasses what feels like my whole life and I don’t know how to get them anywhere but a retail store

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      It’s a leap of faith in a way, to order a pair of glasses online. If you decide to give it a try, I would advise a company like coastal.com that is very customer service oriented and responsive.

  • Laura

    Fun post! I disliked wearing glasses in middle school… for several years, I stopped wearing them because it was “uncool”…finally, I got over it — and now I can actually see! It takes me awhile to find a pair that I like, but I definitely see them as an accessory!

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      I agree, Laura, glasses can definitely be a fashion accessory and I think they are viewed as such by many people now. And, being able to see clearly has its benefits! 🙂

  • Shanna

    yes! We’re cute not nerdy. Well, I’m nerdy. But not because of glasses. Haha

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Well, I actually used the term ‘nerdy’ in this post with love and affection, so being nerdy is quite alright!

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