15 creative ways to de-stress your day and your life
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10 Creative Ways to De-stress and Get Your Day Back on Track

(Last Updated On: November 21, 2019)

Taking care of ourselves in Midlife

Life is great, every day is a gift, and I’m ever so grateful for that. But I know this. Life can also be incredibly stressful. Whether it’s a seasonal rush like the holidays, health-related, family-related, work issues…the list is a long one, isn’t it?

We’re in that sandwich generation and we may be caring for children, grandchildren, and aging parents, with our own lives thrown into the mix. Yes, our days can become stress-filled before we know it.

There are times in our lives when stress can actually be good for us, and that type of stress is called eustress. It can spur us on to action, to accomplish a goal, make that speech, finish the race, so to speak.

More often, though, stress affects us in negative ways, and if left unchecked, can affect our health and ultimately our longevity. As women in midlife, it’s essential that we pay attention to our bodies and listen to what it’s telling us.

Let’s consider 10 creative ways to destress + 5 more things we can do to make our life less stressful. Some are those quick 5-minute stress relievers and others can involve a bit more time, or perhaps changing our habits and behaviors, at least for an hour! But all of these tips and things to do to relax and destress can help us cope with life’s difficulties in a healthy way.

I have a free printable for you to keep handy and use when the day gets stressful. And, during those extra difficult times, you might want to carry it in your pocket! You’ll find access to the printable below.

Oh…I have an idea! Take this time while reading the post to unwind for a few minutes. It will be a short de-stress mini-break. Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and read on. 💗

De-Stress: to release bodily or mental tension; to unwind

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Creative Ways to De-stress

quick things to do to relax and de-stress

One of the most effective ways to deal with stress in a healthy way is to know that it is there and it’s trying to overtake your task, your day, your week, month, or life. Self-awareness is key.

The unhealthiest thing we can do is…nothing. If we don’t acknowledge the issue head-on we won’t take any action to deal with it, let it out, and let it go.

Quick things to do to relax and de-stress

1 | Visualize yourself on a 3-minute vacation

If transporter machines were real, like Star Trek, I’d be beaming myself to South Florida at least once a day! But in the real world in which I live, that is not possible.

So if need be, I’ll take a few minutes to close my eyes or go through some photos, and feel the breeze, smell the air, squish my toes in the sand, soak in the rays of the sun…and let myself be immersed in that world for a short time. For me, that is a sure way to unwind for a few minutes.

How about you? Where would your 3-minute vacation take you? It really can help alleviate the stresses of the moment.

2 | Practice Deep Breathing

Deep breathing can have a positive impact on anxiety and stress levels. There are a number of different ways to practice this, and I found one that is simple and can help to not only relieve stress but may help you fall asleep faster.

The 4-7-8 breathing pattern works like this:

  • empty the lungs of air
  • breathe in quietly through the nose for 4 seconds
  • hold the breath for a count of 7 seconds
  • exhale forcefully through the mouth, pursing the lips and making a “whoosh” sound, for 8 seconds
  • repeat the cycle up to 4 times

Here’s another technique called a heart boost:

As you inhale, think about one or two of the best moments of your life. As you exhale, release the negative feelings and stresses. Your heart will shift rhythms when you pair a positive emotion with inhalation and help improve your mental state.

3 | Do a Little Rocking

Really. It really is a creative way to destress, isn’t it? The gentle rocking motion (emphasis on the word, gentle!) can release endorphins, improve mood, and even reduce pain.

It’s amazing how such a simple activity can give us the ability to decompress and feel better. Keep that rocking chair handy, my friends!

4 | 10 Minute Walk Break

It’s no secret that I love to walk, so this is one of my go-to solutions during a stressful time. When it’s too cold or nasty to be outside, that doesn’t stop me. I walk, jog, march…whatever I need to do, inside.

Even if it’s just for a few minutes, a short walk can clear our head, boost endorphins, and reduces stress hormones.

5 | Take Time to Laugh

Research has found that laughing can decrease stress hormones, reduce artery inflammation and increase HDL, the “good” cholesterol. What can you do to bring a smile to your face?

  • watch a funny video on Facebook or YouTube
  • watch part of your favorite comedy
  • think about a memorable moment from a funny TV show
  • reminisce about a funny thing that happened to you or someone you know, and re-live the moment

Another benefit to laughing? It burns calories. Put that smile on your face often, add some genuine laughing and the benefits are numerous. 🙂

6 | Be Grateful

When you’re in the midst of a stressful situation, if possible, take a few minutes to concentrate on what you are grateful for.

It could require some concentration, but taking yourself out of that difficult place for a few minutes to focus on gratitude can help both your mind and body feel better.

7 | Hand Out a Hug

Research has shown that hugs can protect people from stress and infection. So go ahead, hug someone you trust and care for. Not only does it feel good, safe and uplifting, but that hug can also help you mellow out.

8 | A,B,C…1,2,3

It’s such a simple thing, but focusing on counting for a few minutes can help you wind down. It’s a neutral type of thought so it takes emotion out of the equation.

You can also recite the alphabet backward to get your mind off of the stress of the moment (unless you think this particular little task will cause even more stress!)

9 | Chew Some Gum

Yep. An Australian study conducted in 2008 found that chewing gum helped relieve anxiety, improve alertness and reduce stress.

So go ahead and chomp on that gum for a little while…work out your frustration!

10 | Give Yourself a Scalp Massage

Just five minutes with a DIY scalp massage can be oh-so-relaxing. You might even forget why you were stressed:

  1. loosen your hair
  2. part your hair down the center and divide it into 4 quadrants. You can clip it or just do it visually, whatever is easier for you.
  3. using just your fingertips (no nails) begin at the temples and massage a small section in the selected area. Use firm pressure but not too hard, going in a circular motion.
  4. work your way back in small sections, and don’t forget the area around your ears.
  5. focus on one section at a time and don’t rush through it.

Who knows? Maybe your scalp massages will help your hair grow, too.

Grab your free printable to keep these creative ideas to de-stress at your fingertips

Plan Ahead for Ways to Decompress

creative ways to destress, things to do to relax and destress

The next five suggestions may be familiar to you already, but they deserve to be considered when you are searching for things to do to relax and de-stress. Any one or all of these habits and behaviors will help you stay balanced and healthy.

11 | A Consistent Morning Routine

The way you start out your day can have a significant impact on how the day plays out. I am a firm believer in that!

A simple morning routine that works for you and your lifestyle will benefit your mind, body, spirit, and help you deal with the trials that a day can bring.

Try it!

12 | Create a DIY Self-Care Kit

We know that life is going to throw us some curveballs, some twists and turns along the way. So why not be prepared with your personal Self Care Kit?

They are so easy to create, and once you have it, it sits patiently and waits for you to reach for it and find some relief at your fingertips!

Read and learn more about creating your own self-care kit.

13 | Tech-Break in Morning and Evening

We all spend time on our phones, iPads, tablets, laptops, and computers. Technology is part of our life, and it is a very good thing, most of the time.

But, too much can become a source of stress, for a variety of reasons.

Consider starting and ending your day without electronics in front of you. You really will be okay without your phone in your hand, I promise!

Particularly at the end of the day, by steering clear of the stuff that can get us worked up, emotional, addicted to seeing ‘more’, etc. we can prepare for a good night’s sleep without all that junk in our head.

Except for the Kindle, of course, as a source of reading material that puts me nicely to sleep in about 3 minutes. 🙂

14 | Declutter a Closet, Space, or Room

How frustrated and stressed out are you? How much time do you have!?

Answer those two questions, then decide what you’re going to tackle! Cleaning and decluttering can be cathartic when it comes to things that help us relax and de-stress.

And, when you’re done you’ve also gained a clean, clutter-free space. A two-for!

15 | Eat Healthy

A healthy, balanced diet is the basis and foundation healthy living, so it only makes sense that when you put clean, healthy food into your body it will help you stay focused, alert, and able to deal with what the day brings.

How will you choose to deal with stress? You know it’s bound to hit you right between the eyes at some point.

Stay in tune with your body, your emotions and your state of mind. When you feel things changing, stop for a minute and consider what is going on around you. Then, make finding things to do to relax and destress a priority.

Be prepared with these creative ways to destress. Download the printable and keep it handy for those difficult times!

Candi Randolph Midlife Blogger


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10 COMMENTS

  • Hi Candi – these are all great tips – and many of them have become part of my lifestyle since leaving the job from hell behind. I needed to shed the stress that had become part of my life and replace it with some self-care. Gratitude, peace, authenticity, balance – all these have reshaped my life and my stress levels are so low these days that I wonder how I ever coped with things the way they used to be!
    Thanks for linking up with us at MLSTL and I’ve shared on my SM 🙂

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Hi Leanne, it’s like you’re living a different life now, and how wonderful that is! I’m so happy for you! Thanks for sharing!

  • Christina Daggett

    Hi Candi. Your ways to de-stress couldn’t have been posted at a better time for me. We just moved to Chiatura, yesterday, and I found myself really getting stressed because I want to move forward on this house project and we’re having to tackle a few obstacles first. One of the ideas that you mentioned for de-stressing, is to practice being grateful. I tried that today, when I was feeling overwhelmed with all the things we have to do to get this house project going. I was able to put things in perspective and feel less stressed when I thought about how lucky we are to have been able to buy this apartment, that will give us a homebase in which to travel from. Also I got the apartment where we’re staying de-cluttered and organized, and we’re working on setting up a daily routine of cooking healthy food and exercising. I’ll feel better when we get these routines in place. Thanks for all the great tip, Candi! Sharing to FB.

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Hi Christina, you’ve got so much going on right now! It’s exciting, but as you discussed, also very stressful with so much to do and so many changes in your life. It’s all good, though, ultimately. Take a deep breath and one step at a time! Keep us posted with your progress!

  • Christie Hawkes

    I love this Candi! Thanks for the much-needed reminder and the simple, easy-to-follow tips. I do most of these during stressful times, but will try the visualization and the rocking. Actually, I believe I sometimes rock instinctively without thinking about it. Have a happy low-stress day! I have shared on social media. #MLSTL

    • Candi Randolph
      AUTHOR

      Hi Christie, it’s helpful to know we have so many ways to gives ourselves the opportunity to calm down and lose some of the stress. Thanks so much for sharing!

  • Dee | Grammy's Grid

    Deep breathing, and definitely laughing are both good!! I don’t smoke nor drink alcohol, never have but let me tell you something, I like my gum, bubble gum!!

  • Candi Randolph
    AUTHOR

    Hi Dee, sounds like you’ve got those stress relievers well in hand! Thanks for stopping by.

  • Haralee

    Great tips. Always someplace warm is my virtual vacation spot, especially with the shorter days and cooler weather!

  • Diane

    Oh, my word! All of the above!
    It’s so funny, but as I was reading, I was reaching for a cube of gum and giving myself a scalp massage!
    I’m on the way!

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